The following case studies demonstrate how the Supercoherence Return To Love Frequencies (SRTLFs) have helped relationships between parents and their difficult teenagers and how behaviours suddenly changed for the better.
Relationships Between Parents And Teenagers Are Transformed with the Supercoherence Return To Love Frequencies
From Supercoherence Practitioner Dilnaz Gilder
TS is a warm, sensitive person with a strong sense of right and wrong. She is in a marriage in which the partners are poles apart and in most such cases, each would have gone their own way a long time ago. However, early on in their married life they decided to stick it out together, regardless of their differences. Given the circumstances, she misses genuine love and togetherness, and life is a compromise.
One day, TS borrowed a pair of SRTLFs as she wanted to try them out. The very next day I received a text message saying they were not working and she didn’t feel any different. I immediately called her, and the first thing she said was that she was feeling happy, no, not happy, but calm. So I asked her to listen to what she had just said, considering that none of the external factors around her had changed. She thought about that and decided to continue using the SRTLFs for a while longer. A few days later this was her experience –
She and her husband have always been at logger heads on the upbringing of their son. In fact, it is one of the main bones of contention in their marriage. She feels he is too lenient and indulgent with the boy, and the son feels the mother is too strict, never permitting him to do what he wants. So the family is not a close-knit unit and the husband and wife do not see eye-to-eye most of the time.
One evening they got home from work, and for the first time in several years, they ate dinner and watched a movie together at home while their son had gone out with his friends. At around 11.30 pm they received a call from him asking if he could bring some friends over for a drink. Since these were all 14-15 year old girls and boys, the mother of course did not approve, but passed the phone on to the father to decide on the matter. Surprisingly, the father told his son not to bring his friends home as it was too late at night. When the call ended, she complimented her husband for handling the issue very well and he said he did not know what made him say no to his son on this particular occasion. As expected, the son returned home not in the best of moods. However, his father sat him down right away and gave him a long talk about what is permitted and what is not, at his age. This was also something TS had not expected and it came as a pleasant surprise to her.
When her son was ready for bed TS went to say good night to him. He asked her to stay in the room. So she did, and then quite out of the blue he started talking to her about all his friends, where they go and what they do! Needless to say, she was amazed at this outpouring of information from her teenage son, which went on till 4.00 a.m.! Although she went bleary-eyed to work the next day, she felt extremely grateful for this experience. So, in many ways, it was a breakthrough for all of them and she is hopeful of seeing some more wonderful changes taking place.
Two Months Later...
TS uses her SRTLFs on her teenage son, whenever he is unwell. Her son has now started calling them ‘his frequencies’ and feels upset if she even as much as lends them to any of her family members! One amazing thing she has discovered is that each time she uses them on him, once he feels a little better, he starts confiding in her and sharing things which he never would have told her otherwise. She loves it!
Difficult Teenagers Behaviour Changes Completely
From Supercoherence Practitioner Lotta Naess
UW, a 50 year old woman, is very upset.
She is married and has three teenage children. The eldest one is a daughter of nineteen followed by two sixteen year old twin boys. The problem is with one of the boys, OW; he is unmanageable from her point of view. He is completely emotionally closed when being together with the family. He is punishing them, and himself, in different ways by being “unreasonable”. He refuses to go to parties and does not participate in family activities. He doesn’t say good night when going to bed; he is not nice, aggressive and is only doing things for his own benefit.
He has always got along well with his sister but now she is distancing herself from him. His twin brother is also sick and tired of him as he has always been pushed around.
He has no problems in school or other social activities. But at home and when it comes to taking initiative to do things with friends in his spare time it does not work.
UW is having daily conflicts with OW. He is angry and she gets angry and it always ends up with arguing and shouting.
This is unsustainable and she is willing to do anything to solve this huge problem.
We start with talking about containing. This technique is totally new to her and she will try it next time a conflict is on the go. I suggest that she starts clearing her past with her closest family and then with others with whom she has/had emotional challenges. And to put the SRTLFs on the family members names or photos when not using them herself.
This way of thinking is totally new to UW. She borrows Thrity’s book and gets the DVD to get a deeper understanding of the system.
Two Days Later…
UW calls me two days after her session. She is so optimistic! The first evening OW said good night when he went to bed and that was big, since he had not been doing that for a long time. She could not even remember when.
Then he had accepted her help with his home work, it has only been possible on his terms before.
He had also confessed to a “white lie” when he was late to a lesson in school.
When it was time to go to bed UW was even allowed to touch him on his back and say good night.
I urged her to go to his bed and thank him for today, wish him a good night sleep and say I love you.
It costs so little and will pay so much back!
Do the unexpected, meet panic with calm.
She would think about it and go on with the frequency work until next session.
During the last session with UW, three months later, I found that she had come to huge insights about herself.
First she had felt very sad and cried a lot. She could not even remember when she cried last time.
Suddenly she had realized that her love for her son OW was completely buried very deep down, somewhere out of reach. She was terrified! How could it go so wrong?
Luckily she had followed my advice and to say good night to him, thank him for the day and say I love you.
This had not been easy but she had done it.
Accidentally, after a week, she and her son were home alone on Friday night. The rest of the family had other plans.
She surprised herself by suggesting that they should watch a movie together and so they did.
This evening became extraordinary. They sat beside each other in the sofa, watched a movie and made a huge bowl with popcorn. All by themselves.
UW said to me:
“This was big! We did not even argue about what kind of movie we should see or about who should go out in the kitchen and do the refill of popcorn. And when we were sitting there beside each other I had a glimpse of a feeling deep inside. First I didn’t realize what it was, but then I am sure it was love!”
Supercoherence Return To Love Frequencies Kit (SRTLFs)
