Toxic relationships or difficult relationships can be in various forms and ending them can be challenging and daunting, but the Supercoherence Return To Love Frequencies (SRTLFs) can be of great help during those difficult times.
Ending And Clearing Toxic Relationships with the Supercoherence RTLFs
By Jenny H.
I had been in a very difficult relationship for 8 years. I loved my partner very much, but he constantly upset me, he was very selfish! I later found out that he most probably suffered from Narcissistic Personality Disorder, I had not heard of this condition before and when I read about it, I immediately realized why I had had such a tough time with this man!
During this stormy relationship, I read Thrity’s book, I decided I had to meet her, this was when she was still using the imaging. I made an appointment, found the photographs that Thrity said we would need and off I went for my first session. My first appointment was wonderful, I left feeling so relaxed, happy and confident. Thrity had said to me that I really needed to separate from this man and get on with my life. I knew deep down that she was right, but the reality was I still could not give him up, I loved him too much. I returned monthly to see Thrity, I felt so strong when I left each time. I found I was able to cope a lot better with the situation, but I could not end the relationship!
I was one of the first people to use the SRTLFs (Supercoherence Return To Love Frequencies), they were wonderful, they have changed my life, and soon I made the decision to end the relationship that was wrecking my life! I’m not saying it was easy, I still felt all the pain associated with a relationship break up, but somehow this time ( I had tried before, but failed), I felt the strength to make it final and have a fresh start in life. I used my SRTLFs morning and night. I think I would still be floundering in that destructive relationship now, if I hadn’t been fortunate enough to have my beloved frequencies. They feel like my trusted friends, I never go away without them. I do have days now when I may not use the frequencies at all, but they are always there for me to pick up if I have any emotions that I am finding hard to cope with.
“My Experience of Supercoherence Return To Love Process” by J.G.
I was first introduced to the “Supercoherence Return to Love Process” by Dr. Tony Coope during a consultation in September 2010. We were discussing current and previous relationships and how they have an influence on our lives and current state of health. Tony was recommended to me by a friend as I had been suffering with endometriosis which was the symptom of a hormone imbalance that I believed was connected to the M.E that I was diagnosed with in 2003. In the 7 years since I was diagnosed with M.E. I had practised various holistic therapies. For the most part my health was very good and I had learned to manage the few remaining symptoms very efficiently. The one physical symptom that I was finding it hard to resolve effectively was endometriosis. This particular problem had been causing me a lot of pain for many years and accounted for a considerable amount of anxiety. My doctor had unfortunately been unable to offer any solutions except for surgery and pain killers I had been taking herbal medication to help with the hormone imbalance for a number of years, and although the herbs did have a very positive effect on my health the problem of the monthly pain was still there.
During our consultation Tony explained to me how a physical ailment can be associated with emotional baggage, and how in his experience a number of his female patients who had suffered with endometriosis had also experienced a highly emotional event connected to their femininity either during puberty or at some point in their earlier years. I was fortunate enough not to have experienced anything as traumatic as a rape or sexual assault, but I had previously been involved in a fairly abusive relationship with a previous boyfriend which had left me with some definite negative emotions connected to my femininity. It was at this point that Tony mentioned the “Supercoherence Return to Love Process” and how it could have a positive effect on my current mind set and state of health. We did not discuss this as being an immediate option as there were other avenues to investigate first, but the thought of being able to remove all negative feelings towards a previous relationship (or indeed a current one) stayed with me and after a few weeks I decided to ask Tony more about it.
Tony gave me a brief overview explaining that the idea behind the system is quite simple and that I was not to get too overwhelmed by the science or the photo of the Divine Mother. I also took a look at the website and I watched part of the DVD that was accompanied by the Supercoherence Return to Love Frequency Kit. I must admit that to this day I do not really understand the science behind the process, but all I do know is that it totally, 100% worked for me. The first thing that I did when I received the kit was to dig out some old family photos and some photos of myself with the boyfriend that I had had the particularly difficult relationship with (for future reference his name was Nick). I followed the instructions provided and held the Divine Mother photo in one hand, a photo of some members of my family in the other hand and the ‘stones’ (SRTLFs) in the appropriate hands. I followed the instructions and held the photos and the stones in this way for several minutes. During this time I found myself thinking back to how I had felt at the moment that each of these photos had been taken. That in itself was a very cathartic process. I have never really been the type of person that looks back over the past. I don’t believe in having regrets and most of my time is spent looking forward and planning for the next thing.
Immediately after the first session I did not feel any great change. In fact I felt quite sick when I looked at the photo of myself with Nick. It had brought up a whole host of memories and emotions that I did not really want to feel or accept, but this in itself made me feel sure that continuing with the process was the right thing to do. From that point on I held the Divine Mother photo and the photo of me and Nick in opposite hands and the ‘crystals’ (SRTLFs) in the relevant hands for 20 minutes each evening while I watched the television. I no longer looked at the photos or even thought about them I just carried out the process as part of my evening routine. During these 20 minutes I often felt the stones becoming very hot and my hands and arms started to tingle, but Tony had mentioned to me that this may happen so I was not at all concerned. I just accepted it as being part of the healing.
I must admit that for a week or so I did not give much conscious thought to whether the process was having a positive effect or not, until one morning I woke up after having the most amazing dream. In my dream my ex-boyfriend apologised to me for having treated me in the way that he had done. This may not sound like a particularly amazing dream to most people, but for me it was a definite sign that things were starting to shift in the right direction. In the past I had suffered on a fairly regular basis with bad dreams associated with my ex-boyfriend and so this dream meant a lot to me. I continued with the Return to Love routine every evening for another week or so. Then one morning when I was putting the photos in my bedside drawer, I took a second to look at the photo of me with Nick. It was at that moment that I realised that all of the feelings that I had originally felt when I looked at the photo had totally gone. I could not actually find an emotion to attach to the image of Nick and it was as though someone had wiped away the bad feelings and had just left a nice, clean, neutral space. When I had first dug the photo out of my loft and looked at it, I had felt very angry. I felt angry and disgusted that I had allowed someone to treat me that way. I felt sick to my stomach when I looked at the image of Nick and felt ashamed that it had taken me almost two years to pluck up the courage to leave him. Now when I looked at the image of myself over ten years previously, I saw a girl that was very lonely. Someone that was clinging onto a bad relationship because she felt sure that it was better than being alone.
The Supercoherence Return to Love Frequencies ‘stones’ had done the job. Again, I can’t explain the science of it to you. All I can do is say that it has worked for me. My life has changed for the better and I no longer carry around the guilt and shame that I used to. I no longer feel disgusted by the experience and I do not feel any hatred towards Nick. The slate has been wiped clean and I am now able to move on with my life. I cannot be sure of the effect that the Supercoherence Return to Love process has had on the endometriosis as I am still receiving other treatments. What I can however say is that if you feel that you have unfinished business with a particular individual and you would like to be able to move on, but have not yet found a way of doing so, try the process. After all how difficult is it to hold a couple of SRTLF ‘crystals’ and to dig out a few old photos!
In this case the relationship was not “toxic” but needed to end.
This is a woman I know very well. Very capable, has a high powered job, very kind, caring, helpful and totally reliable. Altogether a lovely human. But she is unmarried. At the time she was in her late forties. She “met” this man through the web on a matchmaking site. A sweet relationship developed via email and later by phone and she found herself head over heels in love. The problem was that he was divorced and lived on another continent. I am a confidante and she kept me informed of the development of this long distance relationship. Once he got to know her better, he told her he wasn’t interested in getting married, to anyone, but liked her a lot as a friend. By this time she was crazy about him. At some point I cautioned her that this relationship was going nowhere and she should let go of it. But she was waiting for the daily email from him and sending him a report of her life every day as well. I could not see a happy ending for this relationship, it was going nowhere, but she could not and would not let go of it. She went to visit him all those thousands of miles away and he was welcoming and kind and gave her a good time – but nothing more. It was obvious that she was fonder of him than he was of her. She kept insisting that she was okay with this state of affairs, and content with the knowledge that he would not marry her.
This went on for a fair while, I think it was well over a year or two, then suddenly out of the blue there was a bombshell. She phoned me one might distraught and weeping. He had sent her a terse email, saying he had fallen in love with someone else and was getting married and could not keep up their relationship. She was devastated as it was so unexpected.
I love her dearly and the first thing I said to her was, “The Universe has done you a big favour. You could not let go of this relationship which was not good for you, now the job has been done for you.” This may sound unsympathetic and unkind, but it stopped the out of control weeping and gave her a different perspective. She did not like what I said, but knew I was right because she knew there is no way she would have terminated the relationship, she could not bear the thought of it. Yet it was not going anywhere and there was no space in her life for anyone else.
I did an assessment for her and fixed the broken heart with the zero point alignment Frequencies (SRTLFs) and some hand written notes.
The result was in her words “And now I can only think of the good times. I don’t have any ill will. And I always think what happens if I meet this person. And at present I think I just go and give him a hug. You know I have come to that stage where I don’t feel any anger, hurt or animosity at all. I just feel that you know we had a part to play in each other’s lives and we have done our bit for each other and we both moved on. It was very very difficult to take initially but.”
In her big hearted way she celebrated the day of his wedding to someone else by preparing some special dishes that we have on birthdays and weddings.
The grief was gone and replaced with peace, acceptance and understanding.
She does not obsess about him anymore and her life works better than it ever did.
What seemed like an unmitigated disaster was a blessing in disguise. It is a coherent Universe.
Supercoherence Return To Love Frequencies Kit (SRTLFs)
